Traditionally we have assumed that children marks our future and that what was experienced guys, we is etched forever as if we depended on our children. Yes it is true, but it is a wrong idea how?
Raising received, some that will dictate our development into adolescence and part of the youth, but not beyond. This is indicated by studies conducted with adolescents and those interested in the interaction between parents and children.
Youth reaching youth is a "social clock" that makes us move. Yes, in the society there are certain patterns that grow tell us we must do this or that entering and exiting a certain age to school, marry, and others. Well, we're accommodating accordingly.
Adulthood However, coming to adulthood, around age 45, individuals are focusing on what they consider valuable or important in life and do so according to what they have learned throughout his life, beyond the social requirements and beyond what was taught in childhood. It is true that most of its current activities are the result of earlier decisions and connect them (not chained) with its past. But the adult
know can change ways of thinking, ways of acting, ways of explaining, and if your approach to life. Of course, depending on the parameters learned and self-discovery in your life.
Genetics
Mmm ... OK ... One thing we do we brand: The genetics, and that is not a function of aging, or in relation to the social, if not with our past legacy. Some authors speculate that between 40% and 50% how are we owe to genetics.
What we
Which means that at least we have another 50% that does not depend on genetics. Moreover, it is proposed that 10% of our personal welfare is owed to the circumstances we live (and this includes children and social context, ups) and the other 40%? We owe it to our will, that is, this 40% is totally dependent on each one of us.
But read it, not only are the result of what we have experienced guys, but also of what we have built independently. We are who we choose (and sometimes without full knowledge of our actions) and based on certain expectations and interests.
So each of us, not all children, not everything is genetic, not all circumstances: There is a good deal of decision of what we are. Although good, were not born with a handbook of life. But we can learn ...
Raising received, some that will dictate our development into adolescence and part of the youth, but not beyond. This is indicated by studies conducted with adolescents and those interested in the interaction between parents and children.
Youth reaching youth is a "social clock" that makes us move. Yes, in the society there are certain patterns that grow tell us we must do this or that entering and exiting a certain age to school, marry, and others. Well, we're accommodating accordingly.
Adulthood However, coming to adulthood, around age 45, individuals are focusing on what they consider valuable or important in life and do so according to what they have learned throughout his life, beyond the social requirements and beyond what was taught in childhood. It is true that most of its current activities are the result of earlier decisions and connect them (not chained) with its past. But the adult
know can change ways of thinking, ways of acting, ways of explaining, and if your approach to life. Of course, depending on the parameters learned and self-discovery in your life.
Genetics
Mmm ... OK ... One thing we do we brand: The genetics, and that is not a function of aging, or in relation to the social, if not with our past legacy. Some authors speculate that between 40% and 50% how are we owe to genetics.
What we
Which means that at least we have another 50% that does not depend on genetics. Moreover, it is proposed that 10% of our personal welfare is owed to the circumstances we live (and this includes children and social context, ups) and the other 40%? We owe it to our will, that is, this 40% is totally dependent on each one of us.
But read it, not only are the result of what we have experienced guys, but also of what we have built independently. We are who we choose (and sometimes without full knowledge of our actions) and based on certain expectations and interests.
So each of us, not all children, not everything is genetic, not all circumstances: There is a good deal of decision of what we are. Although good, were not born with a handbook of life. But we can learn ...
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